Just pondering on my pad….

Do you ever just sit and think about what happens in the last few days that you have gone thru and then after awhile the negative side of it all gets bigger and bigger and so you just got to tell yourself…. stop worrying about it!! Put it in God’s hands.

This happens with me when people do strange things that are directed at me in a round about way and quite often I worry about why some people are hell bent on being not very nice and also others who constantly have the ‘Woe is me’ thing going …now tell me is this to get an audience and sympathy all the time? But surely people eventually see thru this and just don't say anything and think…Oh boy…here they go again…wonder what next week will be.

I don’t mean to be so deep and I don’t usually be this way but after reading others blogs and how they talk about their deep thoughts etc. I thought well I can too and I am.

I try to be tolerable and usually shrug comments off and just let them go but when people do things behind my back and it gets to me from a reliable source I really don’t understand how they can do that and when I front them with it all, they act like they did nothing wrong and even tell lies…WTF???? Actually I think they believe their own lies and really think you are a dumb ass and will believe them too. People like this are very sad and insecure ones and in the end being friends with them is not an option.

Being hurt by them regularly just isn’t an option anymore.

It’s sad to have a friendship pass but if that person drains you constantly you just got to move on from them.

 

 

This past week I have had some deep thoughts going on and have decided that I am only going to surround myself with true to their word, positive and sincere people.

I used to give people three chances at being true and sincere and after the third nasty event that they create toward me, I disassociated from them.

As I have gotten older I have become less tolerable and from now on they just get one chance. Tread on my toes and you are history in my life.  

I turned another year older a few days ago and have come to the point in my life where I want to be happy and enjoy things and not be niggled at by negative people. Life is too short and my years are flying past so happy it is *smile*

I hope you surround yourself with positive people and start enjoying life too..it really is too short. Time goes so damn quick.

Hugs to all